When it comes to making important life decisions, we can choose from two basic states, love or fear.
But how do you really know?
We may inadvertently base our choices on the values of others –what society deems great or valuable. We can also mull the voices of our peers “in our head” when we’re making our most important decisions.
This can influence what we choose, and if we’re not fully conscious, we may not even know the place from which we’re choosing unless we bring a lot of attention to it.
To break it down and refine our vital decisions more clearly, consider these 3 key coaching questions.
1) Am I choosing this because it looks good?
2) Am I choosing this because it feels good?
3) Am I choosing this because it feels right?
Sometimes what’s right doesn’t always feel good, and what feels good isn’t always right. Tune into your heart space and be willing to feel each answer honestly.
Let me know how this approach works for you. Please comment below. I love hearing from you!
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Much aloha, Sura