This question came to me while I was writing about Synchronicity & Prayer. I wanted to know, “what makes synchronicity happen?” “What is it that makes the Universe respond to our requests?”
After some research and numerous interviews, I noticed that synchronicity often happens during major life changes. It is when we are stopped dead in our tracks. We start to open to a bigger question in our life. These major changes look something like a life disaster, job change/loss, illness, death, new births. A huge earthquake happens, and we are shaken to the core. We become vulnerable, receptive. We start to pay attention.
This state of being, I refer to as “being turned ON.” This is the state that creates miracles. You could call it: being present, desperate, focused.. or even “being in the zone.” Your old ways no longer work. Your energy is no longer half here, half there. Because you are turned on, you are no longer divided. There is only one way to go.
During these times, we experience a shift in our psyche. We become humble. We get wholly present. And we are willing to do whatever it takes.
That’s when providence happens.
When I’m coaching others, and they don’t know what they want in life, I’m looking for a sparkle. I keep asking questions until I start to see or sense a sparkle in their eyes, voice, body.. I’m looking for the thing that turns them on.
Even for myself, when I wonder “should I do this?” I go through my internal check list.
Does this turn me ON:
6) Sexually (more on this later .. )
Now, all I have to ask myself, is “does this turn me ON.” And I FEEL the answer. I make sure what I’m doing is hitting every cylinder.
Passion, power, purpose => becomes it’s own self-generating engine.
The universe is pure energy. It responds directly to our energy.
What is your energy communicating to the universe?
Lady Gaga’s “Marry the Night” video is a perfect example of being turned ON. In her words, “she had nothing left to lose.” And thus, had only one way to go.